<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[This Might Be Cringe: The Be Cringe Podcast]]></title><description><![CDATA[Most of us know exactly what we want and want to do. We've just gotten really good at talking ourselves out of it. Welcome to Be Cringe.

Be Cringe is the podcast that explores what happens when you start living for yourself and stop worrying about the opinions of others. This might be cringe, but we're doing it anyway]]></description><link>https://www.thismightbecringe.com/s/the-be-cringe-podcast</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!og_e!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3a1489d9-ac3d-4a21-8f00-ca67f1b98a1d_1024x1024.png</url><title>This Might Be Cringe: The Be Cringe Podcast</title><link>https://www.thismightbecringe.com/s/the-be-cringe-podcast</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Sat, 23 May 2026 11:51:33 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.thismightbecringe.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Julie Laufer]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[julielaufer@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[julielaufer@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Julie Laufer]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Julie Laufer]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[julielaufer@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[julielaufer@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Julie Laufer]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[Be a Lane Switcher with Lia Zneimer]]></title><description><![CDATA[Be Cringe: Episode 5]]></description><link>https://www.thismightbecringe.com/p/be-a-lane-switcher-with-lia-zneimer</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thismightbecringe.com/p/be-a-lane-switcher-with-lia-zneimer</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Julie Laufer]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2026 13:49:27 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/198403682/bba6f5f06bd11a47d937a87d52017474.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="mention-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Lia Zneimer&quot;,&quot;id&quot;:7355471,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;user&quot;,&quot;url&quot;:null,&quot;photo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/b82a592c-bc72-4c20-a171-0b2df5dcd6cf_512x512.jpeg&quot;,&quot;uuid&quot;:&quot;52f541b7-163a-47fe-8bd8-aa2a69983794&quot;}" data-component-name="MentionToDOM"></span> is a former marketing VP, writer, author, theater kid at heart, storyteller, and dog mom to Waffles. </p><p>She is working on her YA novel set at theater camp, while navigating the many swim lanes of her career and finding comfort in being able to go back and forth between in-house roles and working for herself (while writing her book)</p><p>In this conversation, we talk about:</p><ul><li><p>Giving ourselves the permission to define our own success in our career.</p></li><li><p>Going back in-house, and seeing that as part of a larger career ecosystem.</p></li><li><p>Being theater kids (I promise, we move on quickly).</p></li><li><p>Writing a novel, using the &#8216;author&#8217; label before it&#8217;s published, and having big dreams for where it can go.</p></li><li><p>Being brave enough to examine your career and ask &#8220;do I like this or am I just good at it?&#8221; </p></li></ul><p>I am really, truly, so excited about this one. I&#8217;ve admired Lia on Substack for a while, since reading her <em><a href="https://getrecharged.substack.com/p/how-to-recharge-without-quitting">How to recharge without quitting your job</a> </em>essay (and then quitting my job anyway, oops). </p><div class="embedded-post-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;id&quot;:172709335,&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://getrecharged.substack.com/p/how-to-recharge-without-quitting&quot;,&quot;publication_id&quot;:2942600,&quot;publication_name&quot;:&quot;the recharge&quot;,&quot;publication_logo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!jw4T!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4c4ae4c3-fa68-4e97-90c2-cbc12fd125f2_300x300.png&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&#128268; How to recharge without quitting your job&quot;,&quot;truncated_body_text&quot;:&quot;Oh my goodness, a lot of new faces this week. &#129401; (Which means the pressure is on.)&quot;,&quot;date&quot;:&quot;2025-09-08T17:21:37.461Z&quot;,&quot;like_count&quot;:528,&quot;comment_count&quot;:39,&quot;bylines&quot;:[{&quot;id&quot;:7355471,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Lia Zneimer&quot;,&quot;handle&quot;:&quot;liazneimer&quot;,&quot;previous_name&quot;:null,&quot;photo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/b82a592c-bc72-4c20-a171-0b2df5dcd6cf_512x512.jpeg&quot;,&quot;bio&quot;:&quot;Marketer-turned-writer working on my debut YA novel. 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Lia is one of those people, and I&#8217;m so glad our paths crossed when they did. I&#8217;m honored she came on the pod after I called her cringe (always a bit of an awkward sell, I wonder if I&#8217;ll ever get over that&#8230;).</p><p>I can&#8217;t wait for you to listen and hear from Lia. If you know her, you know you&#8217;re in for a treat. And if this is your first time coming across her, you have <em>no idea </em>how big of a treat you&#8217;re in for! </p><p><strong>Find Lia</strong></p><ul><li><p>Substack: <a href="http://getrecharged.substack.com">getrecharged.substack.com</a> </p></li><li><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/liazneimer/"> </a><a href="http://linkedin.com/in/liazneimer/">linkedin.com/in/liazneimer/</a></p></li></ul><p><strong>What Lia Shared:</strong></p><ul><li><p><span class="mention-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Mary Jantsch&quot;,&quot;id&quot;:7338722,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;user&quot;,&quot;url&quot;:null,&quot;photo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/c0b88779-7dc0-4b74-8704-6c05800eb489_985x985.png&quot;,&quot;uuid&quot;:&quot;e8a35ec3-2478-4d2b-a93d-ba81c1d23b30&quot;}" data-component-name="MentionToDOM"></span>&#8217;s Pie Chart<a class="footnote-anchor" data-component-name="FootnoteAnchorToDOM" id="footnote-anchor-1" href="#footnote-1" target="_self">1</a>, referenced <a href="https://maryjantsch.substack.com/p/2-years-after-leaving-tech-heres">here</a></p><div class="embedded-post-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;id&quot;:160372846,&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://maryjantsch.substack.com/p/2-years-after-leaving-tech-heres&quot;,&quot;publication_id&quot;:254599,&quot;publication_name&quot;:&quot;Quite Contrary&quot;,&quot;publication_logo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!kCqf!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F96d5a0dd-18c5-415f-a2ce-1b57c54935c5_1200x1200.png&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;2 Years After Leaving Tech, Here&#8217;s What I&#8217;ve Learned&quot;,&quot;truncated_body_text&quot;:null,&quot;date&quot;:&quot;2025-04-03T23:59:22.196Z&quot;,&quot;like_count&quot;:283,&quot;comment_count&quot;:49,&quot;bylines&quot;:[{&quot;id&quot;:7338722,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Mary Jantsch&quot;,&quot;handle&quot;:&quot;maryjantsch&quot;,&quot;previous_name&quot;:null,&quot;photo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/c0b88779-7dc0-4b74-8704-6c05800eb489_985x985.png&quot;,&quot;bio&quot;:&quot;Quite Contrary is a newsletter for people in career transition, burnout recovery, or identity limbo. I borrow lessons from nature to help you understand your season, protect your capacity, and choose your next right step.&quot;,&quot;profile_set_up_at&quot;:&quot;2022-05-23T19:54:57.996Z&quot;,&quot;reader_installed_at&quot;:&quot;2025-02-07T17:19:11.228Z&quot;,&quot;publicationUsers&quot;:[{&quot;id&quot;:206737,&quot;user_id&quot;:7338722,&quot;publication_id&quot;:254599,&quot;role&quot;:&quot;admin&quot;,&quot;public&quot;:true,&quot;is_primary&quot;:true,&quot;publication&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:254599,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Quite Contrary&quot;,&quot;subdomain&quot;:&quot;maryjantsch&quot;,&quot;custom_domain&quot;:null,&quot;custom_domain_optional&quot;:false,&quot;hero_text&quot;:&quot;Career advice is mostly bad. Nature has better ideas.\nEssays, field notes, and tools for navigating work, identity, and uncertainty through the lens of ecology.&quot;,&quot;logo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/96d5a0dd-18c5-415f-a2ce-1b57c54935c5_1200x1200.png&quot;,&quot;author_id&quot;:7338722,&quot;primary_user_id&quot;:7338722,&quot;theme_var_background_pop&quot;:&quot;#00C2FF&quot;,&quot;created_at&quot;:&quot;2021-01-05T00:44:47.358Z&quot;,&quot;email_from_name&quot;:&quot;Mary | Quite Contrary&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;Mary Jantsch&quot;,&quot;founding_plan_name&quot;:&quot;Contrary Club&quot;,&quot;community_enabled&quot;:true,&quot;invite_only&quot;:false,&quot;payments_state&quot;:&quot;enabled&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:null,&quot;explicit&quot;:false,&quot;homepage_type&quot;:&quot;magaziney&quot;,&quot;is_personal_mode&quot;:false,&quot;logo_url_wide&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/0d1369b7-30e1-4845-b054-0e33897f6075_1344x256.png&quot;}}],&quot;is_guest&quot;:false,&quot;bestseller_tier&quot;:null,&quot;status&quot;:{&quot;bestsellerTier&quot;:null,&quot;subscriberTier&quot;:1,&quot;leaderboard&quot;:null,&quot;vip&quot;:false,&quot;badge&quot;:{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;subscriber&quot;,&quot;tier&quot;:1,&quot;accent_colors&quot;:null},&quot;paidPublicationIds&quot;:[1693332,1599503,2761454],&quot;subscriber&quot;:null}}],&quot;utm_campaign&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:true,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;newsletter&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;,&quot;source&quot;:null}" data-component-name="EmbeddedPostToDOM"><a class="embedded-post" native="true" href="https://maryjantsch.substack.com/p/2-years-after-leaving-tech-heres?utm_source=substack&amp;utm_campaign=post_embed&amp;utm_medium=web"><div class="embedded-post-header"><img class="embedded-post-publication-logo" src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!kCqf!,w_56,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F96d5a0dd-18c5-415f-a2ce-1b57c54935c5_1200x1200.png" loading="lazy"><span class="embedded-post-publication-name">Quite Contrary</span></div><div class="embedded-post-title-wrapper"><div class="embedded-post-title">2 Years After Leaving Tech, Here&#8217;s What I&#8217;ve Learned</div></div><div class="embedded-post-cta-wrapper"><span class="embedded-post-cta">Read more</span></div><div class="embedded-post-meta">a year ago &#183; 283 likes &#183; 49 comments &#183; Mary Jantsch</div></a></div></li><li><p><em><a href="https://getrecharged.substack.com/p/a-plot-twist">A plot twist&#8230;</a> </em>by <span class="mention-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Lia Zneimer&quot;,&quot;id&quot;:7355471,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;user&quot;,&quot;url&quot;:null,&quot;photo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/b82a592c-bc72-4c20-a171-0b2df5dcd6cf_512x512.jpeg&quot;,&quot;uuid&quot;:&quot;65cbb9f0-3384-442c-ae4d-40938b9dafaa&quot;}" data-component-name="MentionToDOM"></span> </p><p>Lia talks about standing in front of three opportunities, and which one she ended up choosing </p><div class="embedded-post-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;id&quot;:191812862,&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://getrecharged.substack.com/p/a-plot-twist&quot;,&quot;publication_id&quot;:2942600,&quot;publication_name&quot;:&quot;the recharge&quot;,&quot;publication_logo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!jw4T!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F4c4ae4c3-fa68-4e97-90c2-cbc12fd125f2_300x300.png&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&#128268; A plot twist...&quot;,&quot;truncated_body_text&quot;:&quot;I posted this Note last week with zero context&#8230; and then immediately started second-guessing myself.&quot;,&quot;date&quot;:&quot;2026-03-31T15:53:14.412Z&quot;,&quot;like_count&quot;:52,&quot;comment_count&quot;:51,&quot;bylines&quot;:[{&quot;id&quot;:7355471,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Lia Zneimer&quot;,&quot;handle&quot;:&quot;liazneimer&quot;,&quot;previous_name&quot;:null,&quot;photo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/b82a592c-bc72-4c20-a171-0b2df5dcd6cf_512x512.jpeg&quot;,&quot;bio&quot;:&quot;Marketer-turned-writer working on my debut YA novel. 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A plot twist...</div></div><div class="embedded-post-body">I posted this Note last week with zero context&#8230; and then immediately started second-guessing myself&#8230;</div><div class="embedded-post-cta-wrapper"><span class="embedded-post-cta">Read more</span></div><div class="embedded-post-meta">2 months ago &#183; 52 likes &#183; 51 comments &#183; Lia Zneimer</div></a></div></li><li><p><em><a href="https://maxpete.substack.com/p/the-tech-dream-is-a-nightmare">The tech dream is a nightmare</a></em> by <span class="mention-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Max Pete&quot;,&quot;id&quot;:737576,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;user&quot;,&quot;url&quot;:null,&quot;photo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/014d725a-b271-4e6b-b399-19fef187ad1c_1179x1179.jpeg&quot;,&quot;uuid&quot;:&quot;aad92833-5959-43d2-963d-54da8a22e7a8&quot;}" data-component-name="MentionToDOM"></span> </p></li></ul><div class="embedded-post-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;id&quot;:171992042,&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://maxpete.substack.com/p/the-tech-dream-is-a-nightmare&quot;,&quot;publication_id&quot;:1064309,&quot;publication_name&quot;:&quot;Good Enough&quot;,&quot;publication_logo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!myxC!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fcbc6a5e2-f3d0-43bb-9b4a-52f5920c7a1d_1280x1280.png&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;The tech dream is a nightmare&quot;,&quot;truncated_body_text&quot;:&quot;Working in tech used to be fun, not because of the cold brew kegs or ping-pong tables, but because it felt like we were moving toward something together.&quot;,&quot;date&quot;:&quot;2025-09-16T12:32:45.438Z&quot;,&quot;like_count&quot;:57,&quot;comment_count&quot;:33,&quot;bylines&quot;:[{&quot;id&quot;:737576,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Max Pete&quot;,&quot;handle&quot;:&quot;maxpete&quot;,&quot;previous_name&quot;:null,&quot;photo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/014d725a-b271-4e6b-b399-19fef187ad1c_1179x1179.jpeg&quot;,&quot;bio&quot;:&quot;I spent nearly a decade building communities for businesses, now I'm building something for myself. 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Find us online:</strong></p><ul><li><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/becringepod/">@becringepod</a></p></li><li><p>Substack: <a href="http://thismightbecringe.com">thismightbecringe.com</a></p></li><li><p>Listen to the pod: <a href="http://becringe.riverside.com">becringe.riverside.com</a> </p></li></ul><div class="footnote" data-component-name="FootnoteToDOM"><a id="footnote-1" href="#footnote-anchor-1" class="footnote-number" contenteditable="false" target="_self">1</a><div class="footnote-content"><p>If you Google &#8220;Mary Jantsch Pie Chart&#8221;, the top results are all Lia talking about this theory on Substack and LinkedIn &#8212; confirming she really <em>does</em> quote it often &#128514;</p></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Be Willing to Get Off the Treadmill with Devon Hunt]]></title><description><![CDATA[Be Cringe | Episode 4]]></description><link>https://www.thismightbecringe.com/p/be-willing-to-get-off-the-treadmill</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thismightbecringe.com/p/be-willing-to-get-off-the-treadmill</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Julie Laufer]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 28 Apr 2026 17:57:58 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/195770114/4532accc5d9e0bb082958047401d3aa9.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="mention-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Devon Hunt&quot;,&quot;id&quot;:93762094,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;user&quot;,&quot;url&quot;:null,&quot;photo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/ba5a3b3f-1f45-409c-a299-c9b7033c13ed_1407x1779.jpeg&quot;,&quot;uuid&quot;:&quot;4dc570d4-3441-428b-98b7-2e34fb434d6d&quot;}" data-component-name="MentionToDOM"></span> is a writer, a retreat host, and someone who is drawn to taste, style, and how it comes about. </p><p>She went to a good school, snagged a business degree, became a CPA, and spent the better half of a decade at a Big 4 firm. She checked promotions off one by one in a career that felt predictable, until one day, she chose to step off the treadmill.</p><p>In this conversation, we dig into what apathy at work tells us, why the fear of making the wrong choice keeps people stuck longer than the wrong choice itself ever would, and what happened when Devon finally gave herself permission to want more (and allowed herself to be seen doing it).</p><p>We get into:</p><ul><li><p>Why passion fall-off is a signal worth listening to (and why pushing through isn&#8217;t always the answer)</p></li><li><p>What burnout leave looks like (spoiler: it&#8217;s not a bubble bath)</p></li><li><p>The difference between an opportunity finding you and working your ass off to be in the right place for it, and how they often coexist and seem to intermingle</p></li><li><p>Why publishing her writing was more difficult for her than the writing itself </p></li><li><p>Why fashion and aesthetics deserve intellectual rigor</p></li></ul><p>I loved this conversation with Devon, and have been so excited to share it with you all. She&#8217;s self-aware, confident, fun to talk to, and has a way with words (both spoken and written). She cites Bourdieu in essays about fashion and somehow makes it feel completely natural, and has recently started sharing her journey in doing <em>The Artist&#8217;s Way</em> on her <a href="https://closetbrainrot.substack.com/p/field-notes-from-the-artists-way">Substack</a>. </p><p>What I keep coming back to from this episode is her framing of apathy as the canary in the coal mine. I know I&#8217;ve felt this, and at various stages in my life have either ignored the signs or pushed through. Devon talks about what happened when she listened to those warning signs, took a step back, and what she&#8217;s found since. I think many others can relate as well. </p><p><strong>Find Devon </strong></p><p>Substack: <a href="https://closetbrainrot.substack.com/">closet brain rot</a></p><div class="embedded-publication-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;id&quot;:2323908,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;closet brain rot&quot;,&quot;logo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!AW68!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F9d7c0938-3905-42c6-9a83-bb85953869d1_1280x1280.png&quot;,&quot;base_url&quot;:&quot;https://closetbrainrot.substack.com&quot;,&quot;hero_text&quot;:&quot;CBR is a study of personal style as a way of living, through clothing, spaces, and objects, and an exploration on how to build a more intentional, visually rich life through what we surround ourselves with&#8212;delivered around the first of the month. &quot;,&quot;author_name&quot;:&quot;Devon Hunt&quot;,&quot;show_subscribe&quot;:true,&quot;logo_bg_color&quot;:&quot;#fef2f2&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="EmbeddedPublicationToDOMWithSubscribe"><div class="embedded-publication show-subscribe"><a class="embedded-publication-link-part" native="true" href="https://closetbrainrot.substack.com?utm_source=substack&amp;utm_campaign=publication_embed&amp;utm_medium=web"><img class="embedded-publication-logo" src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!AW68!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F9d7c0938-3905-42c6-9a83-bb85953869d1_1280x1280.png" width="56" height="56" style="background-color: rgb(254, 242, 242);"><span class="embedded-publication-name">closet brain rot</span><div class="embedded-publication-hero-text">CBR is a study of personal style as a way of living, through clothing, spaces, and objects, and an exploration on how to build a more intentional, visually rich life through what we surround ourselves with&#8212;delivered around the first of the month. </div><div class="embedded-publication-author-name">By Devon Hunt</div></a><form class="embedded-publication-subscribe" method="GET" action="https://closetbrainrot.substack.com/subscribe?"><input type="hidden" name="source" value="publication-embed"><input type="hidden" name="autoSubmit" value="true"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email..."><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"></form></div></div><div><hr></div><p style="text-align: center;"><em>Be Cringe</em> is available <a href="http://favorite%20platform/">wherever</a> you get your podcasts. If you know someone who&#8217;d make a great guest on the pod (yourself included), fill out <a href="https://forms.gle/uxPihqYvkaAQ8aHa7">this form</a>!</p><p style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/be-cringe/id1877413696">Apple</a> | <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/3TJRkDyDgqFXOO8zjfolFc?si=657ea26eb4e5435b">Spotify</a> | <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XQQt_yJ5tds">YouTube</a> |<a href="https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-be-cringe-323509168/"> iHeartRadio</a></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Be a Beginner Again with Amanda Jackson]]></title><description><![CDATA[Be Cringe | Episode 3]]></description><link>https://www.thismightbecringe.com/p/be-a-beginner-again-with-amanda-jackson</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thismightbecringe.com/p/be-a-beginner-again-with-amanda-jackson</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Julie Laufer]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2026 11:14:30 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/194143435/458992cf8c8091c144cc265a0aaffdde.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="mention-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Amanda Jackson&quot;,&quot;id&quot;:103131777,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;user&quot;,&quot;url&quot;:null,&quot;photo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/f2ea204b-154b-434f-823f-79d9404e2fcb_3100x3100.jpeg&quot;,&quot;uuid&quot;:&quot;af3b8952-08b8-42c5-bcdd-e4d93dbb3b31&quot;}" data-component-name="MentionToDOM"></span> is a marketer, a writer, a crocheter, a crafter, a baker, an illustrator, and even an ice skater. Said another way: she&#8217;s a creative who experiments and brings a beginner&#8217;s mindset to everything she does.</p><p>In this conversation, we get into:</p><ul><li><p>Why it&#8217;s okay (and encouraged) to have hobbies we&#8217;re not immediately good at</p></li><li><p>The lessons she brought to the ice after watching this classic <em>Disney Channel Original Movie</em></p></li><li><p>What it means to &#8216;donate your talents&#8217; to a corporate job as a creative, and what that often leads to</p></li><li><p>The power of creating in community and being willing to move through projects, even if you don&#8217;t quite know where they&#8217;ll lead </p></li><li><p>How being yourself in front of teenagers will humble you quickly</p></li></ul><p>I immediately knew that I wanted Amanda on the podcast when I read her responses to my call on Substack Notes. She&#8217;s in a season of transition and experimentation and I find her entire ethos and approach to be relatable and refreshing. She exudes creativity and I feel like in many ways offers me some proof on would happen if I let some of the hobbies I&#8217;ve let die in their proverbial graveyard live on &#8212; I may even pick up a sketchbook again after this chat. </p><p>I hope you all get as much out of this as I did. I appreciate Amanda and her perspective, and can&#8217;t wait for you all to listen! </p><p><strong>Find Amanda:</strong></p><ul><li><p>Substack: <a href="http://mandaroostack.substack.com">Mandaroo Stack</a></p></li></ul><div class="embedded-publication-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;id&quot;:7519263,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Mandaroo Stack&quot;,&quot;logo_url&quot;:null,&quot;base_url&quot;:&quot;https://mandaroostack.substack.com&quot;,&quot;hero_text&quot;:&quot;rediscovering the spark in my career, creativity, and everyday joys. &quot;,&quot;author_name&quot;:&quot;Amanda Jackson&quot;,&quot;show_subscribe&quot;:true,&quot;logo_bg_color&quot;:&quot;#ffffff&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="EmbeddedPublicationToDOMWithSubscribe"><div class="embedded-publication show-subscribe"><a class="embedded-publication-link-part" native="true" href="https://mandaroostack.substack.com?utm_source=substack&amp;utm_campaign=publication_embed&amp;utm_medium=web"><span class="embedded-publication-name">Mandaroo Stack</span><div class="embedded-publication-hero-text">rediscovering the spark in my career, creativity, and everyday joys. </div><div class="embedded-publication-author-name">By Amanda Jackson</div></a><form class="embedded-publication-subscribe" method="GET" action="https://mandaroostack.substack.com/subscribe?"><input type="hidden" name="source" value="publication-embed"><input type="hidden" name="autoSubmit" value="true"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email..."><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"></form></div></div><ul><li><p>LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/amandajacksonamj/">Amanda Jackson</a></p></li></ul><p>And if you have read this far, I did in fact find Amanda&#8217;s first venture into podcasting. Listen <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/and-youre-watching-the-dcom-podcast/id1500000707">here</a>.</p><div><hr></div><p style="text-align: center;"><em>Be Cringe</em> is available <a href="http://favorite%20platform/">wherever</a> you get your podcasts. If you know someone who&#8217;d make a great guest on the pod (yourself included), fill out <a href="https://forms.gle/uxPihqYvkaAQ8aHa7">this form</a>!</p><p style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/be-cringe/id1877413696">Apple</a> | <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/3TJRkDyDgqFXOO8zjfolFc?si=657ea26eb4e5435b">Spotify</a> | <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XQQt_yJ5tds">YouTube</a> |<a href="https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-be-cringe-323509168/"> iHeartRadio</a></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Be the Same Person in Every Room with Max Pete]]></title><description><![CDATA[&#128680; Episode 2 of the Be Cringe Podcast &#128680;]]></description><link>https://www.thismightbecringe.com/p/be-the-same-person-in-every-room</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thismightbecringe.com/p/be-the-same-person-in-every-room</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Julie Laufer]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2026 11:20:38 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/192248238/fb4f3af8dfde27878dbc07165f8a59dc.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="mention-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Max Pete&quot;,&quot;id&quot;:737576,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;user&quot;,&quot;url&quot;:null,&quot;photo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/5c38eed8-ad7e-4c18-9b86-779827735650_1175x1177.png&quot;,&quot;uuid&quot;:&quot;022ff88c-7786-4583-ac82-5cccad9278d4&quot;}" data-component-name="MentionToDOM"></span> is a community builder, writer, speaker, and amateur DJ who has spent over a decade showing up online as himself. He doesn&#8217;t craft a persona or show up differently depending on the situation or environment &#8212; he is the same person in every room he enters.</p><p>In this conversation, we dig into how he got there, the ways ego and identity can help us make decisions, and why being yourself is often the scariest option (but for Max, it&#8217;s the only option).</p><p>We get into:</p><ul><li><p>How his experiences growing up shape how he shows up with others today</p></li><li><p>How to know when it&#8217;s finally time to let something go, even if it&#8217;s something that is seemingly doing well and that other&#8217;s enjoy</p></li><li><p>What it means to build community without it being a strategy</p></li><li><p>Scarcity vs. trust as decision drivers</p></li><li><p>Career growth and thoughts on living for retirement</p></li></ul><p>I am truly so excited, honored, humbled, etc. that Max joined me, and I couldn&#8217;t think of a more perfect guest. Max and I connected on Substack (where he write&#8217;s <span class="mention-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Max&#8217;s Newsletter&quot;,&quot;id&quot;:1064309,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;pub&quot;,&quot;url&quot;:null,&quot;photo_url&quot;:null,&quot;uuid&quot;:&quot;e1f98cb6-8a63-49c6-ad93-5f10c6f6feda&quot;}" data-component-name="MentionToDOM"></span>), and then LinkedIn, and then he was just <em>everywhere</em>, connected to everyone, and one of those personalities that instantly attract. He&#8217;s the ultimate hype man, will send you $10 for a coffee when you&#8217;re having a not-so-great day, and is overall the guy you <em>want</em> in your corner (the way he talks about his wife and family is just the absolute sweetest, too &#128557;&#129401;).  </p><p>I can&#8217;t wait for you all to listen to this one. As I was editing, I was laughing and nodding along as if I was hearing it for the first time. &#128517;</p><p><strong>Find Max:</strong></p><ul><li><p>Substack: <span class="mention-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Max&#8217;s Newsletter&quot;,&quot;id&quot;:1064309,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;pub&quot;,&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://open.substack.com/pub/maxpete&quot;,&quot;photo_url&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/5e012a0d-11d7-41e0-b7a7-6757e610dead_500x500.png&quot;,&quot;uuid&quot;:&quot;df814adb-ed95-4539-8310-5ac41a77b763&quot;}" data-component-name="MentionToDOM"></span> </p></li><li><p>LinkedIn: <a href="http://linkedin.com/in/maxpete">Max Pete</a></p></li></ul><div><hr></div><p style="text-align: center;"><em>Be Cringe</em> is available <a href="http://favorite platform">wherever</a> you get your podcasts. If you know someone who&#8217;d make a great guest on the pod (yourself included), fill out <a href="https://forms.gle/uxPihqYvkaAQ8aHa7">this form</a>!</p><p style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/be-cringe/id1877413696">Apple</a> | <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/3TJRkDyDgqFXOO8zjfolFc?si=657ea26eb4e5435b">Spotify</a> | <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XQQt_yJ5tds">YouTube</a> |<a href="https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-be-cringe-323509168/"> iHeartRadio</a></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Hi, This Might Be Cringe (But I'm Here Anyway)]]></title><description><![CDATA[Welcome to the first solo episode of the Be Cringe Podcast! In this one, I talk about why we're here (and I finally share the 'big news' I've been alluding to for the past 2 weeks)]]></description><link>https://www.thismightbecringe.com/p/hi-this-might-be-cringe-but-im-here</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thismightbecringe.com/p/hi-this-might-be-cringe-but-im-here</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Julie Laufer]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2026 23:14:54 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/190773753/095e4f756511844c4fd52e8a42b47cb8.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, here we are! I am delighted to share the very first episode of <em>The Be Cringe</em> <em>Podcast</em> with you all.</p><p>In this solo episode, I lay the foundation for what I hope we&#8217;ll all get out of this podcast. I also share some pretty big news (and I do it suspiciously casually&#8230;).</p><p>This is actually the second version of this intro episode. When I first decided to launch the podcast, I wrote out what I wanted to talk about in this first episode and turned it into a <em>script</em>. It was polished, it didn&#8217;t ramble or go off on tangents, and overall, it sounded clean.</p><p>Too clean, if you asked me. I published it just moments after I put up the trailer, but took it down after listening again. It sounded scripted, and it didn&#8217;t sound like me.</p><p>It sounded like I wrote something for <em>This Might Be Cringe,</em> set up my mic, and recorded it to be enjoyed while reading on Substack. There&#8217;s definitely a time and place for that &#8212; I&#8217;ve always wanted to add recordings to my essays, but if that were the goal, I wouldn&#8217;t need a podcast.</p><p>I want the podcast to be different. I want the conversations I have and learnings and insights that come out of those conversations to happen authentically and organically, and I knew I had to lead by example with this solo episode. It&#8217;s less polished, and that feels important for me.</p><p>One of the reasons starting a podcast has felt so difficult for me (besides it being totally <em>cringe</em>) is that I&#8217;ve sold myself a narrative that I&#8217;m not a speaker but a writer &#8212; that written communication just isn&#8217;t my jam, that I talk in circles and ramble, and that I don&#8217;t have a <em>voice</em> for radio. And if I am being self-aware, that all might be true! But I know it won&#8217;t get easier unless I try.</p><p>Also, we&#8217;re allowed to do things we&#8217;re bad at. We&#8217;re allowed to have fun while learning, figuring it out, and making mistakes along the way.</p><p>I&#8217;ll be back in a few weeks&#8217; time with our first guest! I&#8217;m really excited about the conversation we&#8217;re going to have, and can&#8217;t wait for you to follow along.</p><p style="text-align: center;">Thanks for listening to <em>Be Cringe.</em></p><p style="text-align: center;"><strong><a href="https://www.thismightbecringe.com/p/introducing-be-cringe-84b?utm_source=substack&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_content=share&amp;action=share&amp;token=eyJ1c2VyX2lkIjoyODMyMzQ5MywicG9zdF9pZCI6MTg4Mzc3MDA3LCJpYXQiOjE3NzMzNDk5ODIsImV4cCI6MTc3NTk0MTk4MiwiaXNzIjoicHViLTE1ODEyMDIiLCJzdWIiOiJwb3N0LXJlYWN0aW9uIn0.-CQOu9qQfMM4yfyIXBkvHbz1smv-8vZCwmhsT6FmPBs">Share</a></strong></p><p><em>Be Cringe</em> is available wherever you get your podcasts, and this episode will be available on all platforms very soon. If you know someone who&#8217;d make a great guest, let me know in the comments below.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/be-cringe/id1877413696">Apple</a> | <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/3TJRkDyDgqFXOO8zjfolFc?si=657ea26eb4e5435b">Spotify</a> | <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XQQt_yJ5tds">YouTube</a> |<a href="https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-be-cringe-323509168/"> iHeartRadio</a></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Introducing Be Cringe, the Podcast]]></title><description><![CDATA[WTF&#8230;I started a Podcast.]]></description><link>https://www.thismightbecringe.com/p/introducing-be-cringe-84b</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.thismightbecringe.com/p/introducing-be-cringe-84b</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Julie Laufer]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 15 Feb 2026 02:10:01 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/188377007/b0b0e504acfb29469d38d4020722fbd1.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>WTF&#8230;I started a Podcast.</h3><p>I&#8217;ve wanted to start a Podcast for a while. Like, for years. And when my husband gifted me a podcast mic for Valentine&#8217;s Day, I felt I had no other choice but to jump right in. </p><p>That&#8217;s the power of <em>wanting.</em></p><p>Welcome to <em>Be Cringe</em>, the podcast that explores what happens when you start living for yourself and stop worrying about all the other noise. This might be cringe, but we're doing it anyway.</p><p>There is something you want to do &#8212; you&#8217;ve just been letting your fear (of embarrassment, of failure, of whatever) get in your way. If that&#8217;s you, you&#8217;re in the right place.</p><p>More to come soon! </p><div class="captioned-button-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.thismightbecringe.com/p/introducing-be-cringe-84b?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Share&quot;}" data-component-name="CaptionedButtonToDOM"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Thanks for listening to  <em>Be Cringe. </em></p></div><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://www.thismightbecringe.com/p/introducing-be-cringe-84b?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Share&quot;}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://www.thismightbecringe.com/p/introducing-be-cringe-84b?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share"><span>Share</span></a></p></div><p><em>Be Cringe</em> is available wherever you get your podcasts, including right here on <a href="http://thismightbecringe.com">Substack</a>. If you know someone who&#8217;d make a great guest, let me know below. </p><div><hr></div><p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/be-cringe/id1877413696">Apple</a> | <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/3TJRkDyDgqFXOO8zjfolFc?si=657ea26eb4e5435b">Spotify</a> | <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l_BulvJWc4s">YouTube</a> |<a href="https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-be-cringe-323509168/"> iHeartRadio</a></p><p></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>